The guide describes behaviours such as humiliation, monitoring someone’s phone, threats and aggression. Each entry gives examples and explanations so a reader can examine what happened in context.
The 64 patterns are arranged across a visual gradient. Readers can begin with a behaviour they recognise, open its explanation and follow links to information about healthy relationships and support.
The guide available now
A digital guide in English and Spanish, available to read without an account. It is a working version that we are continuing to develop.
The colours group descriptions by how harm can appear, including behaviours that are difficult to recognise, restrictions on someone’s choices, physical or sexual violence and immediate danger to life. They help readers browse the guide; they do not score a relationship, describe a sequence everyone follows or predict what will happen.
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